Posts Tagged ‘Good Stuff’
Still, one of the most remarkable speeches ever given
February 4th, 2010This speech by Premier Zapatero in the Spanish Cortes is one of the most remarkable speeches I have ever heard by a straight politician in a legal setting. This was the day same-sex marriage was legalized in Spain. I remember years later having dinner with many of the leaders of the LGBT movement in Spain and one of them said to me:
He said he would do it, and he did it. That’s why we love him
Always pretty remarkable when that happens.
A little night music: I just wanna f**king dance
January 25th, 2010Quiet weekend. Rough news from some quarters. Tough week. So right now, here’s a golden oldie and a favorite of the thom blog:
The Song is from “Jerry Springer: the Opera”
A little night music: Caledonia for my mom
January 19th, 2010I’ve been thinking of my Mom a lot over the last few days. I’m not sure why, she passed away almost 15 years ago now. She always wanted to return home to Scotland for one last time, but never could. We were quite poor and that dream never came to pass. So this year I do plan on going to Greenoch, her hometown near Glascow and visit for her. As you grow older, you think more about the dreams that may not have come true for you, and what you can accomplish in your life. I’m the longest living male in my direct family’s history, so perhaps I think of this to often. but you must still have dreams, and leave something behind. And sometimes, you have the chance to finish the dreams of those who never had the chance. So, Mom, this is for you and Scotland the Brave:
A little night music… History Repeating Itself? Ask the Dame…
January 18th, 2010Dame Shirley that is:
A little night music… Mary J Blige at the Grammies.
January 18th, 2010This is a woman who can sing.
Enrique at G.A.Y. in London
January 17th, 2010I really wish I could explain to people how comfortable and open Spaniards have become about LGBT people, especially in the cities. The influence that Spain could and does have on the Spanish speaking world is immense. And the countries to our south are bit by bit going beyond us in the US. I would love to work on a way to strengthen this amazing connection.
I’m sure I’ve posted this before probably, but it always moves me.
A little night music
January 17th, 2010I haven’t had much to say lately. At least not much very cheerful. But I’ve been feeling something creative coming up, so who knows. In the meantime, here’s some great music from the wonderful Alejandro Sanz and Shakira singing live in Santiago de Compestela.
Two sides of the same coin
January 12th, 2010
Though with great differences, Ellen DeGeneres and Jesús Vázquez portray societies that are slowly changing towards a better coexistence and respect. It is true that there is still a lot to be done but we have advanced and we must value this advancement. Gays and lesbians have conquered rights unjustly denied for years, an achievement that must extend from the big cities to rural areas where homosexuality is still penalized. This is a challenge for those organizations that work towards equality and diversity and that is why to link popular faces to the work of activists because celebrities can trespass frontiers and smooth a not always easy journey.
For Ellen, being a lesbian is part of her personality, not of her job. However, her marriage to actress Portia de Rossi shook the most conservative sectors of American society. After Ellen came out as a lesbian, televangelist Jerry Falwell referred to her in a sermon as “Ellen DeGenerate”, a remark that was vastly publicized in the US. DeGeneres responded by saying: “Really, he called me that? Ellen DeGenerate? I’ve been getting that since the fourth grade. I guess I’m happy I could give him work.”
With seven Emmys and uncountable honorary awards, Ellen is the most visible face of the LGBT movement and overall a North American icon.
On the other hand, Jesús Vázquez married his boyfriend of 5 years, Roberto Cortés, in 2005 and they did so in Spain that had just passed a LGBT marriage law. Without a doubt, his example has been key in achieving normalization. Jesús was basically the first celebrity to openly talk about his husband on national TV from his program “Allá Tú”, something that greatly contributed to LGBT visibility.
Both Ellen DeGeneres and Jesús Vázquez bravely opened doors and are still brave in societies were homophobia hasn’t been eradicated, exposing themselves to the public eye and facing sometimes not so subtle criticism from society and even from the LGBT community.
Letterman tradition since 1984: Darlene Love, R&R great, sings Christmas. It starts my holiday every year.
December 25th, 2009This is a real holiday tradition that I love. Miss Love, you rock. I think this is the 27th time she done the show for Christmas.

