I couldn’t sleep last night: Chile Concerns

February 28th, 2010 by Thom No comments »

from the San Francisco Sentinel

I was glued to Chilean television while the news came in about the horrible devastation experienced in the central part of that nation.  Thankfully, Chile is a highly developed nation and well-prepared for earthquakes with modern standards of construction in the major cities.  Still more than 200 are thought to be dead and that number is likely to go up.

My thoughts and prayers are with the people of Chile.  I will update you with some options on how you can give and help in this disaster.

I will work mostly to find those support groups that are not affiliated with religious organizations.

One of the truly amazing things about talking to people around the world on the Chile TVN site was the outpouring of concern and unity from around the world.  Most people were speaking in Spanish, but there were many Americans there also.  It was deeply touching.

Animo, Chile.  Estamos con Ustedes.

Miré televisión chilena con obsesión mientras las noticias entraron acerca de la devastación horrible experimentada en la parte central de esa nación. Agradecidamente, Chile es una nación sumamente desarrollada y bien-preparado para terremotos, con estándares modernos de construcción en las ciudades mayores. Todavía más de 200 estan considerados muertos y ese número es probable de subir. Mis pensamientos y las oraciones están con las personas de Chile. Yo le actualizaré con algunas opciones en cómo se puede dar y poder ayudar en este desastre. Trabajaré para encontrar en su mayor parte esos grupos de apoyo que no son afiliados con organizaciones religiosas. Uno de las cosas sinceramente asombrosas acerca de hablar con personas en todo partes del mundo en el sitio de Chile TVN fue la efusión de preocupación y unidad de alrededor del mundo. La mayoría de las personas hablaban en español, pero había muchos norteamericanos allí también. Tocaba profundamente.

Esquire’s wonderful talk with Roger Ebert.

February 17th, 2010 by Thom No comments »

I was surprisingly touched and moved by the portrait given in this article in Esquire Magazine.  The Pulitzer Prize winning film critic has not been able to talk or eat or drink for three years now.  And yet, he seems to have found a deeper freedom in the power of the word.  He’s become no less of an atheist or a liberal, but he seems to have taken on that wisdom that those for whom had a great deal of suffering, find.  It reminds me of talks with both of my parents before they died.  Not particular conversations, but the drum beat of what they hoped to leave behind for me.  The real value of life.  What loss is, what our responsibility is, and how to be content.

In his dreams, his voice has never left. In his dreams, he can get out everything he didn’t get out during his waking hours: the thoughts that get trapped in paperless corners, the jokes he wanted to tell, the nuanced stories he can’t quite relate. In his dreams, he yells and chatters and whispers and exclaims. In his dreams, he’s never had cancer. In his dreams, he is whole.

These things come to us, they don’t come from us, he writes about his cancer, about sickness, on another Post-it note. Dreams come from us.

Read the article.  I think you’ll find it moving, too.  And I’m reminded again that this is what illness teaches us, when it is our own, or another’s:

There’s not enough time to write down what he’s angry about

Read more: http://www.esquire.com/features/roger-ebert-0310-4#ixzz0fmj6uSmN

A little night music: Cyndi Lauper

February 15th, 2010 by Thom No comments »

I always thought her range on this song was amazing.

CBS Reports: The Homosexuals 1967

February 14th, 2010 by Thom No comments »

Pretty fascinating stuff.  And as I have been watching it, I’m reminded that this was the environment of my early years.  I would have been about 8 years old at the time of this report.  I certainly already knew I was gay, though I probably used the term “homosexual” in that quasi-clinical way all the books of the time described it.  Everything I read or saw in those years described the perversion and unhappiness and loneliness that my life would lead to.

Of course, I have had times of unhappiness and loneliness in my life.  Who hasn’t?  Once I stopped trying to pray my gay away, and accepted who I was, I’ve been happy much more often than unhappy.  I’ve known much love in many of the forms it takes, long-term partners, shorter term intense sparks, and the love of friends and family.

Last night there was an all-male gay acepella group from Cal that was fierce in their gayness.  And someone next to me, of my age group, said to me:  God to be that comfortable at that young an age.  To experience love and heartbreak and knowledge of yourself at such a young age is so powerful.

We’ve come a long way.

Good line by MoDo in the Times: Don’t Ask, Don’t Tat

February 4th, 2010 by Thom No comments »

In response to a GOP senator’s concern that the repeal of DADT might lead to horrible other things:

Senator Saxby Chambliss of Georgia said that if they began to loosen one restriction, others might unravel, leading to a louche atmosphere brimming with “alcohol use, adultery, fraternization and body art.” Don’t ask, don’t tat.

Still, one of the most remarkable speeches ever given

February 4th, 2010 by Thom No comments »

This speech by Premier Zapatero in the Spanish Cortes is one of the most remarkable speeches I have ever heard by a straight politician in a legal setting. This was the day same-sex marriage was legalized in Spain. I remember years later having dinner with many of the leaders of the LGBT movement in Spain and one of them said to me:

He said he would do it, and he did it.  That’s why we love him

Always pretty remarkable when that happens.

A little night music: Pink, So what?

February 4th, 2010 by Thom No comments »

Just was crazy for her performance the other night at the Grammies.  That video has quickly become difficult to find a way to display legally, but I really have liked her for a long time and this song is really the attitude that I like.  She’s just fierce:

President takes on the Democratic Party “Moderates”

February 4th, 2010 by Thom No comments »

It was good to see the President point out the idiocy of Blanche Lincoln’s logic on where the Democratic agenda should be. This is the more feisty president I wanted, but probably shouldn’t have expected.

But there is a broader story there about how politics has been redefined by the Conservative movement and its media and religious allies.  Even good solid progressives in a city like San Francisco by into the idea of needing to play on the field that the Republicans have built.  This despite (still) huge advantages in majority positions in both houses of Congress.  The Democrats seem to not realize that part of the political process needs to be rebuilding that field.

This is something that is fascinating me more and more lately.  I’ve been having quick back forth conversations about it with Dave Caploe about this and have been reading his lectures and articles in the New York Times recently.  I’m going to continue down this road where it leads me intellectually, and politically share that experience here on this blog.  Hint: the radical left is for all intent a myth created by the right.  As I asked the other day, name me that last major progressive legislation passed through into law in this country.  Anything since Johnson?

So along with exploring my middle aged need to ascribe understanding to my own life experiences, I will also write more about why we have a nation have ended up where we are and why.  I’m just a simple fundraiser and executive, but we can all learn.  Heck, I didn’t learn to speak Spanish until I was nearly 50 years old.

And Mr. President, more of this please.

OK. I may have misjudged…

February 4th, 2010 by Thom No comments »

I have been beyond frustrated with the President’s slow progress on the DADT and other LGBT issues. Frankly, a lot of what he has done is far too “center-right” in its policy tone for me. But that’s a different blog entry. For now, all credit is due the President. I believe he has handled a complicated management and policy problem (not to mention political problem) in a way I actually find I work myself. He has lined up as many ducks in a row as he can and has put the Republicans in a very tight place. Republican after republican have stated in the past that they would defer to the military’s opinion on DADT.

Sen. Lindsey Graham (R-S.C.) said in October 2009 that for a reversal of DADT to be successful, there would have to be a “buy-in by the military.”

“They should be included in this,” said Graham. “I am open-minded to what the military may suggest, but I can tell you, I’m not going to make policy based on a campaign rally.”

Former Massachusetts governor and presidential candidate Mitt Romney in a November 2007 debate was asked if he looked forward to “a day when gays can serve openly in the military?”

“I look forward to hearing from the military exactly what they believe is the right way to have the right kind of cohesion and support in our troops and I listen to what they have to say,” he replied.

In another Republican presidential debate a month later, former Arkansas governor Mike Huckabee joined Romney in insisting that the country needed to hear first from military command.

“I probably would let the military make that decision,” he said, when pressed. “One thing I don’t think you need is a president who’s trying to tell the military how to run the military, other than set broad policy agenda. The Uniform Code of Military Conduct is the best way to handle that and I would leave it to — to those who run the military.”

Sen. Tom Coburn (R-Okl.) has insisted, as recently as 2009, that he would “defer in large part to our military leaders on matters of military readiness and code of conduct. This includes the impact changing the ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policy would have, especially since military leaders note that this issue is fundamentally about military readiness.”

In a 2008 interview, Sen. Jeff Sessions (R-Ala.) defended DADT as a sound military policy by arguing that he had not “sensed that the military is calling for a change.”

Any change to these sorts of comments will again show the blunt bigotry that truly lies behind these men.

I truly don’t believe that this can be done overnight.  I think a year is reasonable.  My fear was always that the President would not do anything on this at all.  It now appears he may have been doing quite a lot.  Recently joining in with Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff is now the former man that held that position; a man who helped to draft this policy:  Collin Powell.

So Mr. President, when I’m wrong, I’m wrong.  So far on this, I am feeling a lot better.  Now about that other stuff…oh, just let well enough alone, Lynch.

How does American News look Overseas

January 30th, 2010 by Thom No comments »

I just thought this was pretty funny. This Charles Brooks guy has a bunch of videos on Youtube, well worth checking out.

And this is another take on general American television. The host wonders how it is that we Americans seem so friendly and laid back when we are surrounded by fear-based shows.

You really get the best feel for this when you travel a lot or live overseas for anytime at all. But check out his other videos on how to be a newsreporter and other subjects. Very funny.