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On Civil Wars and Symbols

April 11th, 2010

Santa Cruz del Valle de los Caídos

If you take a bus ride from Madrid to El Escorial Palace, you will at some point see in the distance an enormous cross jutting 500 feet out from the valley like a scar across the sky. It is the largest cross in the world. It is the Valle de los Caídos, a monument built by Francisco Franco as a memorial to those Nationalists (pro-Franco) who died in the Spanish Civil War. His body now rests within the basillica below the cross. It was partially built with labor from Republican (anti-Franco) prisoners. Many died during its construction. And it remains a controversial and painful reminder of a terrible time in Spanish history.

The right-wing People’s Party has long held that the past should remain in the past. That there were atrocities on both sides and Franco was a complicated and maybe even ultimately necessary figure for the Spanish people. The left-wing PSOE (socialist party) which is now in power has, like many Spaniards, an uncomfortable feeling about what to do with this symbol of Nationalist victory. Certain symbols from that time are rarely seen anymore. The Spanish flag with the black eagle is rare while there remains supporters of the old Spain under Franco.

After the transition to democracy, there was a Pact of Forgetting that was felt to be the only way to move forward. It allowed past Nationalists to participate in the nascent democracy. Spain placed its eyes firmly forward and not to the past.

But ghosts refuse to stay silent. Mass graves have been found. Families want their relatives’ bodies returned. Judges have called for a review of past war crimes. The Socialist government has spoken of changing this Valley Cross to that of a memorial for Spain on its way to Democracy. While I lived there, the government removed the final statue of Franco, late in the dark of the night without notice.

But unlike South Africa and many other countries, there has not been a Truth and Reconciliation process; and that cross still divides.

Recently in the United States, governors of several southern states have declared Confederacy History months. In large parts of the south, it is not unusual to see the Confederate Flag flown. Many of these governors and southerners want to talk about the South and its role in the American Civil War as if that flag were not a symbol of treason and white supremacy. That it symbolizes a lifestyle that was divorced from its slavery. The Original Sin of the United States, the founding of this country as a slave owning country is part and parcel of the Civil War. Sadly, in both Spain and the US, religion is often connected hand in hand with these symbols.

That Confederate Flag will always be tied to slavery and the South. As slavery will always be tied to the South. The terrible Civil War that led to the deaths of 2% of all Americans at the time, and a 100 years of poverty and limited progress in the old Dixie slave states.

Right wing Americans go to pains to define that symbol as not a racist one; as something that beckons to a time that needs to be honored and commerated. Yet it is not surprising to note that the flag’s presence is more common when issues of racism are up and front in this country: during the civil rights battles of the 50s and 60s, some states added the Confederate Flag to their state flag; and now, when Northerners are prominent in the government and we are led by our first African-American president.

This flag is a wound on our country’s soul. I am frustrated to read its defense by politicians. Recently the governor of Mississipee said that the issue of slavery was not a major issue in the Civil War, joining his peer from Virginia.

When we talk of Confederacy History month, or of the “War of Northern Agression,” we are celebrating the darkest part of our National story. There is nothing to celebrate here. There is no way to detach this symbolism from its message of hate. There was no glorious past of this country that include slavery, Southern or Northern.

Perhaps it’s time for our own Truth and Reconcilation.

I think I may be in trouble in San Francisco

February 28th, 2010

gay village in Madrid

I did this little interview for a magazine in Mexico.  I complemented Madrid for its vitality and nightlife, something that San Francisco is definitely declining in.  Oy.  Oh well, I told the truth as far as I see it, and as my friend Natacha said, “you are a bit of both cities now.”

Una encuesta publicada por el diario mexicano “Excelsior” sitúa a Madrid, y más concretamente a Chueca, como el mejor destino para el colectivo gay a nivel internacional.

Si hasta ahora San Francisco era considerada la ciudad preferida por los homosexuales, ahora es Madrid quien le quita el puesto a la ciudad americana y se pone por delante de otras como Barcelona, Berlín o Sydney.

El propio director del Centro de la Comunidad Lesbiana, Gay, Bisexual y Transexual de San Francisco, Thom Lynch, reconoce que Madrid le ha quitado el puesto a San Francisco porque es una ciudad muy abierta y muy plural, sin olvidar que la población de San Francisco tiende a envejecer. “El barrio gay, Chueca, ofrece de todo, de la discoteca a café y terrazas, pasando por restaurantes y cines. Los derechos de los homosexuales son mayores que los que tenemos en Estados Unidos”, agrega Lynch.

Así, Chueca sigue siendo uno de los mayores reclamos turísticos de Madrid.

Still, one of the most remarkable speeches ever given

February 4th, 2010

This speech by Premier Zapatero in the Spanish Cortes is one of the most remarkable speeches I have ever heard by a straight politician in a legal setting. This was the day same-sex marriage was legalized in Spain. I remember years later having dinner with many of the leaders of the LGBT movement in Spain and one of them said to me:

He said he would do it, and he did it.  That’s why we love him

Always pretty remarkable when that happens.

Enrique at G.A.Y. in London

January 17th, 2010

I really wish I could explain to people how comfortable and open Spaniards have become about LGBT people, especially in the cities. The influence that Spain could and does have on the Spanish speaking world is immense. And the countries to our south are bit by bit going beyond us in the US. I would love to work on a way to strengthen this amazing connection.

I’m sure I’ve posted this before probably, but it always moves me.

Two sides of the same coin

January 12th, 2010

Though with great differences, Ellen DeGeneres and Jesús Vázquez portray societies that are slowly changing towards a better coexistence and respect. It is true that there is still a lot to be done but we have advanced and we must value this advancement. Gays and lesbians have conquered rights unjustly denied for years, an achievement that must extend from the big cities to rural areas where homosexuality is still penalized. This is a challenge for those organizations that work towards equality and diversity and that is why to link popular faces to the work of activists because celebrities can trespass frontiers and smooth a not always easy journey.

For Ellen, being a lesbian is part of her personality, not of her job. However, her marriage to actress Portia de Rossi shook the most conservative sectors of American society. After Ellen came out as a lesbian, televangelist Jerry Falwell referred to her in a sermon as “Ellen DeGenerate”, a remark that was vastly publicized in the US. DeGeneres responded by saying: “Really, he called me that? Ellen DeGenerate? I’ve been getting that since the fourth grade. I guess I’m happy I could give him work.”

With seven Emmys and uncountable honorary awards, Ellen is the most visible face of the LGBT movement and overall a North American icon.

On the other hand, Jesús Vázquez married his boyfriend of 5 years, Roberto Cortés, in 2005 and they did so in Spain that had just passed a LGBT marriage law. Without a doubt, his example has been key in achieving normalization. Jesús was basically the first celebrity to openly talk about his husband on national TV from his program “Allá Tú”, something that greatly contributed to LGBT visibility.

Both Ellen DeGeneres and Jesús Vázquez bravely opened doors and are still brave in societies were homophobia hasn’t been eradicated, exposing themselves to the public eye and facing sometimes not so subtle criticism from society and even from the LGBT community.

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Keeping on theme: American Decline and what what we can do about it

January 7th, 2010

Fascinating article in the LA Times about what works, survives, and is in failure in the US as compared to other countries throughout the world.  We simply don’t invest in the things we used to invest in.

Aspects of U.S. life in need of drastic intervention.

Public elementary education, which in most states is desperately underfunded and fails to deliver on its promise to provide all children with high-quality schooling.

The federal government, which is essentially paralyzed by partisanship and incapable of delivering solutions to the country’s most pressing problems.

State governments, which are largely dysfunctional and nearly insolvent.

American infrastructure, including highways, docks, bridges and tunnels, dikes, waterworks and other essential systems we aren’t maintaining and upgrading as we should.

Airlines and the airports they service, which are almost Third World in equipment and service standards.

Passenger rail, which has not one mile of truly high-speed rail.

The financial system, whose over-paid executives and underregulated practices ran us off an economic cliff in 2008 and compromised the whole system in the eyes of the world.

The electronic media, which, except for public broadcasting and a vital and growing Internet, are an overly commercialized, broken-down mess that have let down the country in terms of keeping us informed.

Print media, which from newspaper publishing to book publishing are in crisis.

Basic manufacturing, which has fallen so far behind it seems headed for oblivion.

A couple of interesting articles about the US v the world

January 7th, 2010

The first article is basically a response to the always frustrating New York Times columnist Ross Douthat’s recent statements about the relative strengths of the American capitalism system to the more European Social Democratic model used in nearly all of the original and 1982 expanded EU.  There really are no “socialist” countries in Europe despite what the Repubs will tell you.  Social Democrats are capitalistic countries that believe in regulated capitalism and a significant social safety net.  Gee, sounds good to me.  And from experience, it seems to work well.  But Ross opines:

Social democracy has its benefits, but global competitiveness isn’t one of them. As Jim Manzi points out, in an essay on “Keeping America’s Edge” in the latest issue of National Affairs, “from 1980 through today, America’s share of global output has been constant at about 21 percent. Europe’s share, meanwhile, has been collapsing in the face of global competition — going from a little less than 40 percent of global production in the 1970s to about 25 percent today.”

The always interesting Matthew Yglesias responds:

Jon Chait, for his new blog, delves in deeper and discovers a few salient points. One, Manzi is comparing US economic performance since 1980 to European performance since 1973—which is nuts. Two, Manzi is defining “Europe since 1973″ to include the Soviet Union and sundry Central European countries that spent half that period in the Communist bloc:

So, let’s look at a straight-up measure. How did the United States perform in comparison with European social democracies? Well, since 1980, the original 15 members of the European Union saw their real per capita income grow by 58%. Real per capita GDP in the United States grew by… 63%. And that measure actually overstates the difference. The European Union does not include Switzerland, Norway or Iceland — three countries that clearly qualify as European social democracies. Those three countries had 71% growth in per capita GDP since 1980 — thanks to Isha Vij of the Center for American Progress for pointing this out to me — which, if added to the EU 15, would bring the growth record of the United States and the social democracies even closer to parity.

Even more interesting to me is that though the US and the EU are pretty much at parity a key difference is the distribution of a county’s wealth.  In Europe you will find far fewer very wealthy people and far fewer very poor people.  So the difference is really in the distribution of wealth and a philosophy about how a society cares for its citizens.

Over the last 30 years in the United States, we have been indoctrinated by media, pundits, the Republican party and others that only our system creates wealth.  Closer to the truth is that we are unique in how we distribute that wealth among our people.  Rarely in Europe would you find an executive making more than say 8 times their lowest paid employee.  In the US private sector, we see orders of magnitude above this.  But we are so sure that no other system works, that the mere mention of a “European” system can kill any progress here in the US.  And the Dems are as much to blame as the Repubs.  Democrats constantly live looking over their shoulder in fear of being called socialist or a dove on foriegn policy.

We could use a little bit of adult behavior.

The other fascinating article is by one of my favorite writers, James Fallows, who has an interesting take on returning to the US after 3 years of living in China.  I can say that after my time living overseas, I have been struck by several things:  the amount of poverty apparent everywhere, the dirt of the city, the number of mentally ill people on the streets, and vast disparity of those with money and those without.  Read the whole article, its a great read.

Paco, Paco, Paco Beyonce?

September 14th, 2009

Let me start by saying that I think Beyonce was really classy last night in response to Kanye’s bizarre behavior. What was up with that?

So, I like Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It) a lot.  It was a very big hit in Spain too.  But the joke is Spain is that perhaps it is not as original as you might think.  A song from 1969 by Encarnita Polo called Paco, Paco, Paco has a frightfully similar sound.  So all of a sudden that song became a huge hit last year in Spain.  At the office where I worked, the staff kept singing Paco all the time!

A video wiz updated the Beyonce video with the song and the fit is amazing.  No people are not really saying it is stolen, just that it works so well with the video. What do you think?

So even worse, it became a youtube sensation in Spain. Here, on a nightly talk show called Buenafuente is one of the stars of a version of the youtube video. The host is yelling out compliments to the dancer’s body in jest.

As they say in Spain, joder!

One more note before bedtime (oh, ambien, where are you)?

August 22nd, 2009

This video is from a great night time soup for young adults (and many gay men and lesbians) in Madrid call Physics and Chemistry.  They have a wonderfully complicated and emotional love story going on between two very sweet boys and it just reminds me of the feelings and the strength of those feelings when I was young.  The video is in Spanish, but the language crosses barriers.  I think you’ll get what is going on. The title of the clip is “estoy acojonado, voy a dejar a Ruth.” which means literally that I’ve put the wind up, and I’m going to leave Ruth. More accurately, I’m really doing it, it’s set in motion, I’m leaving Ruth. Unsaid, is “for you.” Ahhh.

Heat Wave Continues in Madrid

July 2nd, 2009

 

Always another option for cooling down

Always another option for cooling down

The weather in the Spanish capital continues to run hotter than usual.  Normal temperatures at this time of year are in the low 80s.  We have consistently been in the mid to upper 90s.  The daily sunshine is bright and strong and their is little relief at night.  There are times when one would kill for a bit of a breeze.  So what to do in this kind of heat, especially during the parties and festivities of Madrid’s Orgullo Festival.  

I’ve learned to dress much more appropriately for the heat.  The typical American wardrobe of a pair of blue jeans and maybe a polo shirt or t-shirt just is too warm and uncomfortable.  You really need to find very light and very breathable clothing.  Light cotton, linen, and hats can be terrifically helpful.  I have even gone full bore European and wear what some might call Capri pants (the 3/4 length pants that are seen all over the place).  Why do you wear them, well, it’s cooler!