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So, what’s up with Chile?

March 3rd, 2010

When the crisis hit Haitai, it was non-stop news. I know that they are our neighbors. I know thay are very poor. I know we screwed them over many times. But heck, the axis of the earth changed in Chile. People are strarving there. Yes they are a wealthy country, but man they need help. So tell me, what’s happening in the city that we can all do our thing and help them out? Do you want me to put something together. I could be ingnorant, point me that way!

A little night music: Caledonia for my mom

January 19th, 2010

the Lion Rampant is the only tattoo I have

I’ve been thinking of my Mom a lot over the last few days.  I’m not sure why, she passed away almost 15 years ago now.  She always wanted to return home to Scotland for one last time, but never could.  We were quite poor and that dream never came to pass.  So this year I do plan on going to Greenoch, her hometown near Glascow and visit for her.  As you grow older, you think more about the dreams that may not have come true for you, and what you can accomplish in your life.  I’m the longest living male in my direct family’s history, so perhaps I think of this to often.  but you must still have dreams, and leave something behind.  And sometimes, you have the chance to finish the dreams of those who never had the chance.  So, Mom, this is for you and Scotland the Brave:

Summer trip to Madrid for Gay Pride (first week in July)?

January 8th, 2010

I am thinking of leading a trip to Madrid this year for Gay Pride, which is the biggest in Europe.  Madrid has become the most progressive and fabulously gay city in Western Europe right now and Pride is a blast.  I would get us back stage passes to special events during pride, the Mr Gay Spain contest, get us on a float, and show you around the city.  As you know I’ve been to Spain many times over the last eight years, and lived there recently.  I’m trying to get a feel for the level of interest.  It could be expensive (first rate hotels) or cheaper (some great hostals (which are like pensiones.  Anyone have any interest?  I can promise you a very good time with the chance to meet real Spaniards and see some amazing sights.  El Prado, Reina Sofia, Palacio de communicaciones, Gran Via, and of course Chueca, a great great gay neighborhood.

Because Spain has such great high speed rail systems, cities like Barcelona, Sevilla, Toledo, Segovia, and much more are only a couple hours a way.

“Socialized Medicine”

July 8th, 2009

healthcareI mentioned a day or so ago that I had to go to the Emergency Room here in Madrid because I was having extreme pain on one side of my body.  I thought you might be interested in how things work here and how it might compare to the United States.

I put “socialized medicine” in quote marks, because it really is a silly phrase when talking about almost any European health system.  Spain, like France, has private insurance available.  And all of these countries are active capitalistic states that also emphasize a more substantial safety net than the US.  Most people choose to stay in the public system because they feel the care is better and it has the best doctors.

I work in Spain, so I pay taxes for my health care, as does my employer.  The employer pays the larger share of the burden.  However, the total cost is significantly lower than health care premiums in the States.  All Spaniards and legal residents are covered.  Those who are here illegally can also gain access to a health card by registering at city hall.  Most do so.

I go to a health clinic within walking distance to my house.  There I have a doctor and nurse that are assigned to me.  I´m not sure if I can change my doctor if I want to, but I´ve been told that yes you can.  The law was changed several years ago to allow you to change.   But I´m quite satisfied with my doctor.  She´s thorough and concentrates most on the things that will keep you out of the hospital.  I have several health problems that she stays on top of.  I have seen her on average once a month since being here so she can monitor my progress.  I can tell you that I never saw my physician once a month in the US, and these health issues are not new.

If I need a prescription refill or to see the doctor for something, I have always gotten an appointment on the day that I requested it, with my own doctor.  I have never waited more than 5 minutes to walk out of a pharmacy with all my prescriptions.  On the meds that I currently take, my co-pay in the US was about $100 a month.  Here it is about $15.

Spain is ranked amongthe top 10 best health care systems in the world (#8) according to the World Health Organization.  People here feel it is their right to have health care, and are stunned and deeply upset with what they hear about the US system.

So, over the weekend I started having really bad pain in my side.  I mean really bad pain.  I tried to ignore it and thought it would just go away.  This is called the Lynch Health Care Plan.  But after 3 days of not being able to do anything but lay in bed and groan, I finally talked to a Spanish friend and asked how emergencies are handled.  Do I have to call the Primary Doctor, do I need to go to a certain hospital, does someone need to approve the ER visit?  The answer was to go to the nearest ER and if I couldn´t go on my own, to call for an ambulance.

I took a taxi to my hospital and signed in for the Urgencias.  You show your health card, they look you up, and then you go into a triage room.  A nurse came out to speak to me to evaluate the problem and they moved me along pretty quickly into an office with a doctor.  That doctor and another checked me over, order pain killers, lab tests, and fluids.  They suspected kidney stones, which was later confirmed.  They gave me a prescription for pain meds and referred me to a specialist whom I see tomorrow.  All in all I was in and out in 5 hours, and with a specialist appointment within 48 hours.  Pretty impressive.

The negatives were that pain treatment is not as big a concern as it is in the US.  There is something very Spanish about suffering.  I would have liked something stronger, because frankly, I´m still in pain, though the edge is gone and it is bearable.

No one spoke English, not surprisingly, as very few people in Madrid speak English.  But they sure were friendly and did everything they could to help me be understood and understand.

In short, I think the system here works.  It has less bureaucracy, and the doctor seems far more in control of what they are doing than in a US system.  By that I mean, there are not a lot of rules for them to deal with, not a lot of overlayered bureaucracies to deal with.

They say I may need surgery here.  I hope not.  But I feel like I´m in excellent hands.

Happy Fourth USA! Happy Gay Pride Madrid!

July 4th, 2009

usa-flagHoliday Thoughts:  

  • What in the world is Sarah Palin thinking?  Has there ever been a politician who has self-destructed so completely, so quickly, in our lifetimes?  I, like others, expect there is much more to this than we know.
  • North Korea has launched 7 rockets in the last few days.  
  • As I’ve said before, I was never a worshipper of the Michael Jackson machine, so perhaps this isn’t a surprise, but I think all the media attention has been way over the top.  He was also a likely serial child abuser.  
  • I’m rooting for Andy Roddick today.  I have never really taken a shine to that other Roger guy, and without my Rafa, what else can I do?
  • Best quote on the Palin fiasco by David Waldman, who after noting how many things Palin has quit without finishing, said:  But then again, this was someone who probably winked because she couldn’t commit to finishing a blink.
  • Unbelievable news from India.  I’ve  been there once (to the state of Kerala) and it is a pretty homophobic place.  But the people there couldn’t be kinder or nicer.  It will be interesting to see how India changes in the next few years.  I had a long talk on my trip there with someone who is excited by the changes that economic growth and globalism is bringing, but terrified about how it will change the traditions, which he felt it was bound to do.
  • Sweden took over the EU Presidency for its six-month rotation.  Here’s what to expect.  Spain will follow in January for its six months.
  • Happy to hear that the Community of Madrid (the provincial level government) and Madrid city hall will finally begin contributing to the promotion of LGBT tourism.
  • After being back in Madrid for seven days of record heat above 95 degrees, I bought ice for the first time in my life.

Have a wonderful holiday!

The Activists of Madrid

July 2nd, 2009
Spanish Actress and Transgender Activist, Carla Antonelli

Spanish Actress and Transgender Activist, Carla Antonelli

Had a great time last night with all the surrounding fun and hoopla of the opening ceremonies of Madrid’s Pride events. As I said, I did get to speak to a group in Spanish for the first time and it went well. Everyone understood me, though I’m sure I made many mistakes.

 

But one of the really best parts of the night was the chance to have dinner with activists and sponsors at a private dinner following the opening. What an amazing group of people. I was talking to one of the organizers of Barcelona’s Pride events, which took place last week, and finally found out why there really wasn’t a major event in Barcelona, traditionally a much more progressive city than Madrid. Alas, the progressiveness has been one of the challenges. There is so much infighting that takes place among the many groups in the city that no parade or fair could ever really get off the ground. Everyone had their own political and cultural agendas and could impose them in a way that absolutely nothing ever got done. Sounds familiar to me a bit, though in fairness, San Francisco’s LGBT community, while challenging and passionate, does get some pretty amazing parties off the ground.

One of the interesting people I had a chance to talk to was Carla Antonelli, who is a very well-known transgender activist here in Madrid and through-out Spain. What a wonderful person and impressive voice for the community. We talked about her having been arrested and jailed during the transition to democracy and what her life has been like living as an activist in a quickly changing country. She was totally unsurprised to hear about the ENDA scandal of a couple of years ago, and remarked that the trans community is always left out at first.

Here is a video of Carla talking in 2005 as the law was being changed in Spain to give expanded rights to the transgender community. In Spain, you can change your birth certificate or not have a gender listed at all officially.


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Also interesting was listening to how much the LGBT community here respects and admires the Prime Minister of Spain José Luis Rodríguez Zapatero. As one activist said to me, “here is a politician that promised us equality, and then actually did it! Can you believe it?!”

Well, no. I can’t. But it did happen here. I reprinted part of his speech the other day in a prior post. One of the things I had left out (as I was reminded yesterday) was that when the law granting full rights was passed in the Parliament, Zapatero read from the Greek poet Kavafis (who was gay) this passage:

Later ’twas said of the most perfect society / someone else, made like me / certainly will come out and act freely

May we all continue to seek out the most perfect society.

Back in Madrid for Orgullo Gay

July 1st, 2009

I returned from San Francisco a couple of days ago.  I had a wonderful time with friends (really, they are my family) and loved seeing the city.  I also got to do a little bit of work for this fabulous company I work for that is going to change the world.  It was looking festive and beautiful for Gay Pride Week.  I missed the parade becuase I had to get back here for some work.  But I ran smack dab into another Pride Festival.  You can read about Gay Pride in Madrid in this New York Times article.  The Madrileños do know how to party.

It felt strange being in SF again, like I had never left and like I had been away for years.  I´ve only been gone less than a year, so I suppose that is not a strange feeling, but Madrid does feel like home right now.  Who knows, if my visa is not renewed, I may be back in a few months anyway!

I came back to Madrid to see my friend Stuart Milk, who, as most of you know, is the nephew of Harvey Milk.  Stuart was swinging back to the US after opening gay pride in Istanbul.  Apparently the city had brought out the riot police and street tanks to stop the parade, but it was finally allowed to continue.  Congrats to Stuart on his courage and leadership.  Stuart is being slammed with interview requests from all over Madrid and Europe, so we have done almost no touring, but I am glad I was able to hook him up with the media here.  It´s very important that the message that Harvey carried continues today.

If you can read Spanish, here is the link to the El Pais story on Stuart.  Tonight he will be receiving the Muestra T award and I will be giving my first gay rights speech in Spanish (very short).  I am so used to doing speeches and television, but in another language, it will be interesting to see how it feels.  Barcelona and the rest of the country had their parties last weekend, but Madrid is this week.  It is one of the biggest in the world, with more than 1,000,000 participants (compared to 60,000 in Barcelona).  If you don´t think of Madrid as an LGBT tourist spot, you really should.

Gay Pride Madrid

Gay Pride Madrid

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Just Yikes

June 18th, 2009

 

Zzzzz

Zzzzz

I was out for most of the day running errands and getting ready for my trip to San Francisco tomorrow and enjoying another (really hot) day in Madrid.  It was wonderful.  I signed the lease for my new apartment, which is located a stone’s throw from the Royal Palace (the biggest in Europe – the Palace, not my apartment) and came home to walk the dog and clean the house.

I quickly fired up the ol’ Mac and took a swing around the intertubes and I gotta tell ya, sometimes you just need to take a break.  In fifteen minutes I read:

  • Barney Franks doesn’t think the DOJ DOMA brief was so bad
  • Bush’s NSA spied (accidently) on Bill Clinton
  • Holder will not prosecute domestic spying violations
  • Bush spoke out against Obama on Gitmo
  • There now appears that a pro-choice nominee for a sub-cabinet position was successfully filibustered (not really, just threatened – nowadays you just need to say there might be a filibuster) by the Republicans because she is pro-choice
  • There is now a permanent 60 vote supermajority needed for EVERYTHING in the US Senate/snark
  • The public health care option is hanging by a thread because it doesn’t have 60 votes
  • The Republicans are going to carry out their own Iran policy
  • North Korea is planning on firing a missile towards Hawaii
  • Convicts have no right to DNA tests
  • and PETA is very upset that the president killed a fly.

Had enough?  I’m going for a walk and taking a break.  Sometimes you just have to disconnect.

See you from SF.

Harvey Milk to Be Honored In Madrid for Gay Pride

June 18th, 2009

 

San Francisco Supervisor Harvey Milk

San Francisco Supervisor Harvey Milk

I’m excited to be playing host to my friend Stuart Milk while he stopping by in Madrid on his latest travels for work and activism.  When I mentioned his visit to some of my friends involved in the LGBT Pride activities (that start next week) and this fall’s LesGaiCineMad International Film Festival, they were thrilled to talk to Stuart about Harvey and his life.

 

Stuart and I will be talking about Harvey Milk and his life and the changes in the Bay Area’s LGBT community in the years since at a wonderful event where we will be presented with an award in Harvey’s name by Gay Pride Madrid and Muestra T (Gay Pride Madrid Cultural Festival) organizers.  Well-known Spanish actress Berta Ojea will be presenting the awards.

Stuart will be widely interviewed by the national media here and by some French media.  Although Harvey’s life story is better known now that the great movie Milk has been shown around Europe, many Europeans don’t know as much about him and his significance as they could.  This will be a great opportunity to help tell the story and encourage more work for LGBT rights around the world.

Wednesday 1st july from 21:30h to 22:30 h
Place: Del Rey Square Stage (Chueca District, Madrid)

After there will be a cocktail in Museo Chicote where you are very welcomed to come.

The film festival in particular is looking to work more with other groups around the world to spread the availability of Spanish Language and Spanish sub-titled LGBT films, especially to places in Latin America that don’t have the infrastructure to distribute and place these films.  This year, the Film Festival in Madrid will for the first time have a special conference to connect film makers, distributors, producers, and more professionals to help meet this need.

Organized by Fundación Triángulo, LesGaiCineMad is one of the world’s most important independent film festivals, well-placed on the map of international festivals and events related to the 7th Art. With 14 years of history, 9 venues, and 120 movies, LesGaiCineMad will, for the first time, bring together members of the international LGBT film industry in a space of exchange, education, and business that will take place at LesGaiCineMad Spanish Film Market (SFM), coordinated by Spanish director Mariel Macia. 

 “The international industry has been with us,” says Mariel Maciá, head of Industry & Market at LesGaiCineMad, “in each edition for the last 14 years. We believe that by acknowledging their presence, having independent LGBT cinema professionals mix and network to create new projects and business, andalso  structuring their visit so that they share their experience and knowledge with Spanish directors is the next step that our festival should take.”

Previous festivals have been glittered with the presence of respected figures such as Pedro Almodóvar, Bruce LaBruce, and Barbara Hammer among others.  The new conference (SFM) should prove to be a valuable addition to the fun. 

  1. SFM will provide its participants a selection of Spanish movies produced from 2006 to today, in DVD format with English subtitles. The same movies will also be viewable at SFM Booths – located at the SFM Meeting Point. The films participating in the official selection of the Festival will also be available. 
  2. SFM will organize debates, seminars and meetings with renowned international professionals dedicated to the production and distribution of LGBT contents. 
  3. SFM will create a meeting point (SFM Meeting Point) where all participants will meet, organize reunions and see movies at SFM Booths. 

Video of the Day: Tom Cruise is a Cxxk Block

June 8th, 2009

Count how many movie quotes you can catch