Archive for the ‘LGBT Leadership’ category

OK. I may have misjudged…

February 4th, 2010

I have been beyond frustrated with the President’s slow progress on the DADT and other LGBT issues. Frankly, a lot of what he has done is far too “center-right” in its policy tone for me. But that’s a different blog entry. For now, all credit is due the President. I believe he has handled a complicated management and policy problem (not to mention political problem) in a way I actually find I work myself. He has lined up as many ducks in a row as he can and has put the Republicans in a very tight place. Republican after republican have stated in the past that they would defer to the military’s opinion on DADT.

Sen. Lindsey Graham (R-S.C.) said in October 2009 that for a reversal of DADT to be successful, there would have to be a “buy-in by the military.”

“They should be included in this,” said Graham. “I am open-minded to what the military may suggest, but I can tell you, I’m not going to make policy based on a campaign rally.”

Former Massachusetts governor and presidential candidate Mitt Romney in a November 2007 debate was asked if he looked forward to “a day when gays can serve openly in the military?”

“I look forward to hearing from the military exactly what they believe is the right way to have the right kind of cohesion and support in our troops and I listen to what they have to say,” he replied.

In another Republican presidential debate a month later, former Arkansas governor Mike Huckabee joined Romney in insisting that the country needed to hear first from military command.

“I probably would let the military make that decision,” he said, when pressed. “One thing I don’t think you need is a president who’s trying to tell the military how to run the military, other than set broad policy agenda. The Uniform Code of Military Conduct is the best way to handle that and I would leave it to — to those who run the military.”

Sen. Tom Coburn (R-Okl.) has insisted, as recently as 2009, that he would “defer in large part to our military leaders on matters of military readiness and code of conduct. This includes the impact changing the ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policy would have, especially since military leaders note that this issue is fundamentally about military readiness.”

In a 2008 interview, Sen. Jeff Sessions (R-Ala.) defended DADT as a sound military policy by arguing that he had not “sensed that the military is calling for a change.”

Any change to these sorts of comments will again show the blunt bigotry that truly lies behind these men.

I truly don’t believe that this can be done overnight.  I think a year is reasonable.  My fear was always that the President would not do anything on this at all.  It now appears he may have been doing quite a lot.  Recently joining in with Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff is now the former man that held that position; a man who helped to draft this policy:  Collin Powell.

So Mr. President, when I’m wrong, I’m wrong.  So far on this, I am feeling a lot better.  Now about that other stuff…oh, just let well enough alone, Lynch.

Two sides of the same coin

January 12th, 2010

Though with great differences, Ellen DeGeneres and Jesús Vázquez portray societies that are slowly changing towards a better coexistence and respect. It is true that there is still a lot to be done but we have advanced and we must value this advancement. Gays and lesbians have conquered rights unjustly denied for years, an achievement that must extend from the big cities to rural areas where homosexuality is still penalized. This is a challenge for those organizations that work towards equality and diversity and that is why to link popular faces to the work of activists because celebrities can trespass frontiers and smooth a not always easy journey.

For Ellen, being a lesbian is part of her personality, not of her job. However, her marriage to actress Portia de Rossi shook the most conservative sectors of American society. After Ellen came out as a lesbian, televangelist Jerry Falwell referred to her in a sermon as “Ellen DeGenerate”, a remark that was vastly publicized in the US. DeGeneres responded by saying: “Really, he called me that? Ellen DeGenerate? I’ve been getting that since the fourth grade. I guess I’m happy I could give him work.”

With seven Emmys and uncountable honorary awards, Ellen is the most visible face of the LGBT movement and overall a North American icon.

On the other hand, Jesús Vázquez married his boyfriend of 5 years, Roberto Cortés, in 2005 and they did so in Spain that had just passed a LGBT marriage law. Without a doubt, his example has been key in achieving normalization. Jesús was basically the first celebrity to openly talk about his husband on national TV from his program “Allá Tú”, something that greatly contributed to LGBT visibility.

Both Ellen DeGeneres and Jesús Vázquez bravely opened doors and are still brave in societies were homophobia hasn’t been eradicated, exposing themselves to the public eye and facing sometimes not so subtle criticism from society and even from the LGBT community.

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The Case for Gay Marriage

January 12th, 2010

I’m beat down tired, but so impressed with the trial so far in San Francisco on the Federal Challenge to Prop 8.  I’ll have more to say, but let me share this with you:

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Excellent Site to follow the day to day coverage of the Prop 8 coverage.

January 11th, 2010

I’ve deeply moved by the strength, intelligence and passion of our former opponent on the conservative side, Mr Olson.  It helps me to remember that not all conservatives are anti-human rights.  And that in this case, at least one is bringing all he can for truth.  I have hope at least that a cogent argument is being made.  And though we may lose, the courts are not our friends, today, I cry in the joy of hearing our lives described in the mundane and common Americanism that we all represent.

via http://prop8trialtracker.com/2010/01/11/liveblogging-day-1-daily-summary/.

Holidays are over, and hope begins

January 4th, 2010

I have spent the last two or three years as a cynic. I’ve always been a bit of a cynic, but what I am referring to here is in the classical greek sense of the word, as in pulling one apart from politics or the believe in the ability to change a system as large as the political system of the US and indeed the world. So it’s a glorious ability to throw bombs and share a hopeless sense. But it is not a something you can live with forever. My disappointment in the loss of Constitutional control of the American government under Bush, and Obama’s willingness to not prosecute and in fact set up protections for the war criminals hurt. I left the country for a year and wanted to experience a different set of values. Values I treasure. Individual rights, regulated capatalism and a robust welfare system.

Yet, I am hopeful. I think with all the disappointment I have with the political structure in the United States and its inability to sustain real change and recognize true human rights, Obama has been a vast improvement. I do believe time will help us overcome.

I saw a concert this weekend with my personal diva, Bette, in Vegas. There’s her most signature song, The Rose. It is a song of the hope of a better spring time after a difficult winter. Our winter has gone on for so long, ten years. No job growth, war crimes, cowardize around LGBT rights. Eight years of war. But the seed, with the sun’s love, comes the rose.

I’m committed to fighting and not letting politicians off the hook. But I am also committed to hope. To holding ourselves to a higher standard. I am committed to global connection and universal citizenship. I am committed to be one of many suns that will bring light and bring the spring. In my current job, I’m committed to finding ways that every LGBT person in this city can find help when they need it. Substance abuse, mental health, poverty, HIV and AIDS, and building a sense of community have been my life for the last 25 years. I am recommitted.

What can you do to bring that light. To end the winter of our discontent, to borrow a phrase. To make this city and this country what it can be.

Good job on first pro-gay marriage commercial in Maine

August 28th, 2009

I lived in Portland, ME for nearly 8 years.  Loved the city and the people.  Incredibly progressive.  The outlying areas will be interesting on this issue.  But the reality is Maine has always been proud of a “live and let live” philosophy.

What do you think?

Obama, Racism, and Gay White Leadership

August 24th, 2009

obama_lgbt_logoAs some of you have been reading my posts over the last few months know, I’ve been pretty harsh with some of the decisions and strategy of the President, particularly on the issues of health care reform and LGBT rights.  It hasn’t just been the president that I’ve been critical of, it’s also been the Democratic Party in general.  

I had a brief, but very interesting conversation with someone tonight about how the White House has taken on some of these issues.  This guy is a smart guy, works at Harvard, and is politically astute.  He suggested that things would turn out fine, that the politics of the moment meant that a very strategic president needed to reach these goals differently and with patience.  

Pretty standard argument.  These are hard things to do, the right will eat him up, one step at a time.  Not an argument that I am prone to buy into anymore.  But one thing he said did really strike me.

It’s no secret that the LGBT movement and its fight for rights does not do as well politically among people of color as it should be doing.  Though I don’t buy into the Prop 8 myth that blacks caused us to lose, I do believe that we have not built the bridges that we need to build.  So his point was basically this:

How does it look when white gay leaders and activists are among the most vocal critics of the first African-American president in US history? 

Doesn’t it feed into an already difficult relationship?  And does it mean that we can not criticize Mr. Obama?  

I think it would be very difficult for anyone to deny that many of the right-wing attacks against the president and his place of birth and socialism and all the rest, does not have, in some form, a racist tone.  There is a strong cord of racism in this country and in particular going back to the Palin rallies, racist attacks against President Obama.

So, I want to be more aware of how I frame my critique of the White House.  I don’t want to ignore what I think are problems.  But let me be more clear about what I think the genesis of many of those strategy errors are.  The Democrats, including the White House, are allowing the right wing to frame every debate.  

Our policy prescriptions are good ones, but we start out by being defensive about how the Republican Party will attack them.  We don’t fight for our own beliefs.  We have bought into the notion that progressive ideas are radical ideas.  Where in reality, they are popular and workable ideas.  

So, where my focus will be is in trying to get the Democrats to fight from a position of strength, to be willing to lose with your best ideas, and not water everything down out of fear of what a minority, regional party may say.

The truth is, they are willing to say anything.  We should be willing to say the truth and fight for our own ideals.

New evidence of same-sex marriage support when you know Teh Gays

August 23rd, 2009

Nice charts passed on by Matt Yglesias:

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Second, who tells pollsters that they know someone who’s gay:

 

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This sort of data are not new.  They have been part of a process that has been happening for many years, and may infact be increasing as other social changes are taking place.  For me, this leads to a longer wait.  I’m in favor of 2012 wait for many reasons, which I will get more deeply into in a future post.  But it is important.

Increasingly, my interest is turning more to what is next after marriage and not just hear in this country but others two.  Our youth know a different world.  We will do a LOT of talking about that soon.

The Activists of Madrid

July 2nd, 2009
Spanish Actress and Transgender Activist, Carla Antonelli

Spanish Actress and Transgender Activist, Carla Antonelli

Had a great time last night with all the surrounding fun and hoopla of the opening ceremonies of Madrid’s Pride events. As I said, I did get to speak to a group in Spanish for the first time and it went well. Everyone understood me, though I’m sure I made many mistakes.

 

But one of the really best parts of the night was the chance to have dinner with activists and sponsors at a private dinner following the opening. What an amazing group of people. I was talking to one of the organizers of Barcelona’s Pride events, which took place last week, and finally found out why there really wasn’t a major event in Barcelona, traditionally a much more progressive city than Madrid. Alas, the progressiveness has been one of the challenges. There is so much infighting that takes place among the many groups in the city that no parade or fair could ever really get off the ground. Everyone had their own political and cultural agendas and could impose them in a way that absolutely nothing ever got done. Sounds familiar to me a bit, though in fairness, San Francisco’s LGBT community, while challenging and passionate, does get some pretty amazing parties off the ground.

One of the interesting people I had a chance to talk to was Carla Antonelli, who is a very well-known transgender activist here in Madrid and through-out Spain. What a wonderful person and impressive voice for the community. We talked about her having been arrested and jailed during the transition to democracy and what her life has been like living as an activist in a quickly changing country. She was totally unsurprised to hear about the ENDA scandal of a couple of years ago, and remarked that the trans community is always left out at first.

Here is a video of Carla talking in 2005 as the law was being changed in Spain to give expanded rights to the transgender community. In Spain, you can change your birth certificate or not have a gender listed at all officially.


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Also interesting was listening to how much the LGBT community here respects and admires the Prime Minister of Spain José Luis Rodríguez Zapatero. As one activist said to me, “here is a politician that promised us equality, and then actually did it! Can you believe it?!”

Well, no. I can’t. But it did happen here. I reprinted part of his speech the other day in a prior post. One of the things I had left out (as I was reminded yesterday) was that when the law granting full rights was passed in the Parliament, Zapatero read from the Greek poet Kavafis (who was gay) this passage:

Later ’twas said of the most perfect society / someone else, made like me / certainly will come out and act freely

May we all continue to seek out the most perfect society.